The Pleasure of Letting Someone Be Themselves爱里还有一种快乐,是看见一个人就活出他自己
There is a question I keep returning to in intimate relationships: when does helping someone grow become an attempt to remake them?我经常在想,亲密关系里,帮助一个人成长,和控制他按照自己的意愿发展,边界到底在哪里。
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