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I’m interested in how we make sense of our experiences, and how our experiences shape the way we see, feel, communicate, and relate; how closeness is built or lost; and what allows two people to meet each other with greater honesty, understanding, and depth. Much of my writing begins with a simple curiosity about what is really happening inside a person, and between people.我关心我们如何理解自己的经历,以及这些经历如何塑造我们看待事物、感受、沟通和与人相处的方式;亲密如何建立,又如何失去;以及什么能让两个人以更坦诚、更理解彼此、也更深入的方式相遇。我的许多文字,都始于一种简单的好奇:一个人的内心,以及人与人之间,究竟正在发生什么。

The Deep relationships column is where I explore these questions in writing. With Evolournal, I approach a related question from the inside: how we can understand ourselves more clearly through journaling, reflection, and everyday action. I also plan to share book recommendations here.我在「深度关系」栏目中,用文字探索这些问题。而在 Evolournal 中,我从内在出发,探索一个相关的问题:我们如何通过日记、反思和日常行动,更清晰地理解自己。我也计划在这里分享读书推荐。

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The Pleasure of Letting Someone Be Themselves爱里还有一种快乐,是看见一个人就活出他自己

There is a question I keep returning to in intimate relationships: when does helping someone grow become an attempt to remake them?我经常在想,亲密关系里,帮助一个人成长,和控制他按照自己的意愿发展,边界到底在哪里。

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What Does That Word Mean to You?你说的这个词,对你来说是什么意思?

Two people can use exactly the same word and mean completely different things.两个人可以使用完全相同的词,却在表达完全不同的东西。

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